Part of being a good friend in Island culture is bringing gifts for people when you return from your travels. In the past we’ve tried to think of small gifts that we could give to multiple people— t-shirts, flashlights, candy—Small gifts (so as to avoid too much added weight to our luggage) and not too expensive (as we usually needed a lot of them).
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| Catching a soccer game on West Coast |
But that has changed over the years. As our friendships have deepened, the expectations have deepened. Some friends expect better gifts, others might not ask us to spend more, but to facilitate their spending. What do our top gift requests look like these days?
Medicines: Medicines are a funny thing. There are many medicines we can get in the island for a fraction of the price of what we would pay in the States. But there are other medicines that cost a great deal more and are often very hard to get. We currently have requests for diabetic blood testing strips, topical pain medications, and fixadent (the stuff for dentures). The medicines can be an expensive gift, but most of the time, we are happy to get them. We know there is a need for them, so it feels like we are really helping out. Medicines also tend to be small, which is nice for packing.
Phones: I would say the number one thing we get asked to bring people is phones. Most of these are hoping to get a smart phone as a gift. The funny thing is, they don’t like iPhones. Apple products aren’t very compatible on the islands where everything is android. We always do our best to bring back at least a few phones for friends (often used), but if new phones an expensive gift and we wonder about the precedent we are starting. But it’s true that the quality and price for phones in the US is much less than what people would pay on the islands, so it is not an unreasonable request.
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| No one asked for a puzzle |
Tablets: This has been the surprise request this time around. Not only that we’ve had so many people request them, but that a number of people have said they will pay for them themselves. They are simply asking us to be the middlemen—to help them find a good product at a good price and deliver it to the islands. So this time around we find ourselves playing the role of Amazon delivery services! Why all the excitement about tablets? Sadly, we think they are mostly coveted as child-minding devices. All the people that have requested tablets have young kids and have requested the durable ones that can show kid cartoons. Though we don’t mind helping out a few friends—especially if they are willing to pay for it, a tablet is not an easy thing to travel with as it has to come with us in carry-on luggage, and at some point it starts to look a bit suspicious. We’ve set a limit to the first 3 who asked for them.
So part of our limited luggage allowance will be given over to these gifts. In case you were interested, some other requests we’ve had both presently and in the past include: an xbox, a power wheels (yes, like one of those cars that toddlers drive around in!!!), reading glasses, purses, a hair cutting kit, dictionaries, cameras, water bottles, big screen tvs, backpacks, shoes, boots, uniforms, rain gear, seeds, luggage, and laptops. Some people have better sense of what is easily transported on an airplane and what isn’t. We know that we are sure to disappoint a good number of people, but we’ll try to have something for them. “Sorry, I didn’t get you that big screen tv you wanted, but here’s a T-shirt.”
PRAYERS ANSWERED
We made it safely back to the East Coast— we are thankful for the wonderful week on the West coast. Megan’s lip and leg are mostly healed now— we are thankful that the injury was not serious. Our younger son turned 14— we are very proud of all the ways he is growing and for the fun and loving young man he is.
PRAYERS REQUESTED
We’ve had news that an island brother (and good friend) lost some family members to a boating accident when a group was going to another part of the island for a picnic. One of those lost was a child. Pray for this family in their grief and that our friend might be able to be a light and comfort to his extended family. Megan and our boys only have two weeks in the US— pray that they could get our to-do list done while also having rest and good time with family. Pray for our daughter and older son as they both have appointments to get driver’s permit. There was a taxi strike on the islands this past week— the strike appears to be over for the moment but things still seem volatile on the islands. Our colleague has been struggling with her solar system (a recurring and exhausting problem)— pray that she can get the right advice and parts so that she can have consistent power.











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